Playing Safe
The Mistress Always Plays Safe
Whilst reading my Rules and Limits, which of course you did, didn’t you Little One? I will be checking. Anyway, whilst reading that information you will have seen I touched on aspects of safety within play. This is a very important part of any session and I will elaborate on some aspects of that here, but there is also the matter of health and hygiene; which unfortunately includes COVID measures as well.
If you have any desire to book a session with me, ensure this information is understood and followed to the letter.
Session Safety
Planning and communication are essential to a safe session. I have stated this several times but your session will be planned and agreed on in advance with no changes being made on the day; unless in exceptional circumstances and always at my discretion.
One of the most basic safety practices is having safewords and actions (in case you’re nicely gagged) arranged so you can let me know if something isn’t working or you’re uncomfortable in any way. Having safewords means you can beg and scream as much as you like and I will simply ignore your pleas for mercy unless you call a safeword. This means we can both enjoy the fantasy. I do not play without safewords.
A lot of thought, planning, and risk assessment (depending on what you kinking little things want) goes into every one of my sessions. I follow the BDSM philosophy of RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), so I highly advise you to understand this term and the meanings behind it as if I deem something unsafe or have any doubts about consent (usually within a couple) then things will stop instantly.
Everyone in my sessions will be safe, know how to keep themselves safe, understand exactly what to expect to ensure we all have fun.
Health Safety
Whilst all those lovely marks I’ll leave on you will heal, other health concerns need to be taken very seriously.
When you apply you will be asked a few questions about your health, these questions are for both of our safety and must be answered truthfully. If you have a heart condition for example, then I need to know so I can make sure you’re writhing in pain and pleasure, not having a heart attack.
The same is also true about your HIV and STI status. There is no sex, but if I am handling and tormenting your genitals then I need to be aware if you have had any positive tests. To be clear, a positive of either of these tests is not an instant refusal, but it does mean I would need to take extra precautions and adjust my plans accordingly if I decide to accept your application.
Covid-19
Regardless of the UK Governments’ official stance on Covid, I still expect all subs to take a lateral flow test before attending a session. I do the same for your safety, and I expect this requirement to be respected and obeyed.
